30-something ancom. Black & gq, they/them 🏳️‍⚧️. neurodivergent, disabled spoonie, & caregiver to disabled parent. fuck fibro. jewelry & candle makerhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.apphttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mxgalvfktc2gbeen lowkey annoyed at what a pharmacist said to me about #fibro. he could’ve just said it wasn’t considered part of the list of “long term health problems.” he didn’t have to add another sentence of “that’s just general pain,” because it’s not.09 Oct 2026 05:30 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mxgalvfktc2ghttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mxarpzjrr22ypain is at a 7 tonight 🥲07 Oct 2026 01:20 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mxarpzjrr22yhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mwbpiu7fos2sjust from today, so many more red ones to pick, so many more green ones waiting 🌱🍅 i’m making sauce later24 Sep 2026 16:48 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mwbpiu7fos2shttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mvhiivytvs25i’m at a low point about my disabilities & inability to be a Normal & functional adult w/ a job & a house & partner. i get to spend my birthday tomorrow with the woman who calls me a worthless disappointment that ruined her life while she smiles & says “happy birthday” like she means it14 Sep 2026 06:33 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mvhiivytvs25https://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mvhdxmzedk25(don’t count your chickens before they hatch - i wasn’t too panicked yet about income being so low rn. then i opened family b-day cards early, just the ones that usually contain enough cash to cover most of my vital bills for thr month & some food, to try to plan ahead… suddenly very worried 🥲)14 Sep 2026 05:12 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mvhdxmzedk25https://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mveuo27cp22tit’s my birthday in a few days13 Sep 2026 05:33 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mveuo27cp22thttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3muxolbh4os2qtoday’s little harvest 🌱🍅07 Sep 2026 23:39 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3muxolbh4os2qhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3muqrwxvkc22iwatching the fandom of a thai guy who follows & pins the quotes of american fascists (while said fandom actively dismisses others’ concerns & makes excuses for him) call out another fandom for not immediately calling out a racist troll *sigh*05 Sep 2026 05:51 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3muqrwxvkc22ihttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3msuadkooe227i didn’t start doing it on purpose but when i say i’m having a post-shower nap, this is exactly it [contains quote post or other embedded content]12 Aug 2026 03:56 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3msuadkooe227https://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mstgiaan5s2ri have all these tomatoes but idk what to do with them yet…11 Aug 2026 20:13 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mstgiaan5s2rhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mstgfbprb22rtemp’s too high to go out during the day, humidity’s too high to breathe at night :/11 Aug 2026 20:12 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mstgfbprb22rhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3msqeqcfar22zfirst harvests of the tomato family! early girl & heirloom black cherry, along w/ more ground cherries 🌱🍅10 Aug 2026 15:04 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3msqeqcfar22zhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3msmvozyyoc26i don’t have it in me yet to get the words together but my sister keeps pointing out things about how i walk & voice changes & facial hair & it’s making me so self conscious about every little thing09 Aug 2026 05:57 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3msmvozyyoc26https://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mshmnr7hlc2eit’s so damn humid i can’t breathe07 Aug 2026 03:32 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mshmnr7hlc2ehttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3msbrs5ky6k2rloaded up ea app & after that updated, sims started downloading a mf 27 GB update 🫠 TWENTY. SEVEN.04 Aug 2026 19:48 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3msbrs5ky6k2rhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3msanzqm3zc2ffinally got sims 4 mods updated (mostly, i hope) after months of neglect. a prev patch broke everything so i switched to gardening mode - harvested my first tomatoes of the year yesterday. the rest of this month is grinding for $$$, so it’s good to have some fun stress relief again04 Aug 2026 09:08 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3msanzqm3zc2fhttps://blacksky.community/profile/commanderboshtette.blacksky.app/post/3mqyif7fyxs2uyesterday was an emotional day. celebrated a friend’s birthday, then finally made it back to my grandfather’s grave, in the smoke & rain. my heart hurts19 Jul 2026 09:40 +0000at://did:plc:kz36mqwlc63dnl6tdqb4h7vb/app.bsky.feed.post/3mqyif7fyxs2u