She/her. Michigander, AuDHD - Living with POTS, MCAS, celiac, & perimenopausal rage. Fuck fascists. Free Palestine. Your 1 stop shop for TMI, soap box diatribes, native plant nerdery, cats, and cross-stitch. I only repost images with alt-text.https://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.socialhttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mzbg6ogsuc2zExact same sleeping position at the exact same time.01 Nov 2026 18:17 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mzbg6ogsuc2zhttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mzahi6a7es2aWe have learned the hard way that apparently the first few periods can be heavy as ovulation may not yet be occurring. Poor girl bled through period underwear (for heavy flow), pants, and a towel after just a few hours of sleep. Getting a bit concerned, honestly.01 Nov 2026 09:07 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mzahi6a7es2ahttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz7kkemx622cQuote of the night Me: I'm making braised beef tips tomorrow. Husband: I haven't had beef tips in forever. Miss 13: What are you feeding me? That sounds like a penis.01 Nov 2026 00:29 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz7kkemx622chttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz7fma4nas27Tonight I am learning that kids don't want Halloween candy if they don't recognize the brand. Lotta kids opting for Nutter Butter and Oreo packs instead of Tony Chocolonely bars. I'm sure my family will figure out what to do with the leftovers.31 Oct 2026 23:01 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz7fma4nas27https://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz7compodc24The bloom is off the rose today. Miss 13 has been reactive and explosive all day. Holiday + first period + dad being argumentative = everything sucks at the moment. Hopefully a speedbump and not a dead end.31 Oct 2026 22:09 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz7compodc24https://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz6uemxl4k2oHuh. Former family friend's kid got arrested for plans to murder his family and commit a public mass murder event. We cut them off because they're MAGA, anti-autism, qanon adjacent assholes.31 Oct 2026 17:52 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz6uemxl4k2ohttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz5cohhq2c2r@oishinythings.bsky.social have you ever tried green light therapy for your frequent migraines? I started using mine again a couple nights ago and thought of you. I could Kofi you enough to buy one if you'd like to try it.31 Oct 2026 03:03 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz5cohhq2c2rhttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz4qnkiupc2cJust did a tarot pull with the new deck regarding whether Democrats would take control of the senate next week. I got the King of Wands reversed, the King of Coins, the Queen of Coins and the Moon. The Moon card in this deck depicts rusalka, which are the souls of women who were drowned in Slavic30 Oct 2026 21:41 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz4qnkiupc2chttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz4larfb6k2nThe long anticipated day has arrived: Miss 13 got her first period. Day before Halloween, no less, poor thing. We will be celebrating tomorrow with red velvet cake and a self-care basket.30 Oct 2026 20:04 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz4larfb6k2nhttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz4d2fto7k2eSaw a Black creator talk about how the passing of people like Patrick Stewart and Dolly Parton are giving white people the ancestors we need to connect to since so many of our actual ancestors were racist, sexist pieces of shit. That choked me up a bit, honestly.30 Oct 2026 17:37 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz4d2fto7k2ehttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz2clgxzj22b90% of the plants and seeds I buy are native but you will have to pry the cosmos from my cold, dead hands. 🌱29 Oct 2026 22:23 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz2clgxzj22bhttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz2cby7efk2bMe yesterday: As my nervous system starts to come out of constant fight or flight, I need to be very responsive to my body's need for rest. Me, today, tired as fuck: Better run to the chicken farm and the pig farm. Think I'll make pork loin, mashed potatoes, and pumpkin bars tonight for dinner.29 Oct 2026 22:18 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz2cby7efk2bhttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3mz22wi5vbc2oEarl grey. Hot. sob29 Oct 2026 20:06 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mz22wi5vbc2ohttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myzuzcb2wk2vI'm still working my temp job helping a private equity firm clean up their vendor records and ya'll, it's driving me up a wall. WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU'RE MAKING REGULAR PAYMENTS TO SEVERAL COMPANIES DESPITE NOT KNOWING THE ACTUAL COMPANY NAME OR HAVING THEIR EIN NUMBER OR ADDRESS?! HOW???29 Oct 2026 18:21 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myzuzcb2wk2vhttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myzog2ilvs2wEvery morning after waking up, I spend a few minutes in manifestation meditation. No wait, it's actually spent replying STOP to all the political texts I already received that day. Close enough.29 Oct 2026 16:23 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myzog2ilvs2whttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myy7dgbmf224Possible migraine incoming. It probably does not help that ACAB boy across the street was burning leaves again today. [contains quote post or other embedded content]29 Oct 2026 02:20 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myy7dgbmf224https://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myxwczmkus23Watched this earlier today and had to pause it several times and either howl with laughter or just process, mouth agape. He nailed those fuckers so precisely, so perfectly. I guarantee he hurt their damn feelings. Incredible stuff. [contains quote post or other embedded content]28 Oct 2026 23:39 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myxwczmkus23https://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myxtgzps5c2oMy autonomic nervous system decided around 4 pm that it was a great time to silently implode for no discernible reason.28 Oct 2026 22:47 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myxtgzps5c2ohttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myxol4nrec2gI'm a woman so literally just being alone in a dark public place. [contains quote post or other embedded content]28 Oct 2026 21:20 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myxol4nrec2ghttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myxl5ia3i22cI pulled a card from my new deck asking for guidance on how to navigate this new phase. The description is beautiful. "After the wreckage, light. This is the hope of survivors. It does not pretend nothing bad happened...If you are exhausted, if you have been through a Tower experience and do not28 Oct 2026 20:19 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myxl5ia3i22chttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myxk3ql5322cA milestone #WIPwednesday update: I am done with the dark blue floss!!!!!! Took me 11 months. Now a conundrum. The interior color for the waves was going to be three shades of grey. But now that I'm to that point, I don't like any of them. Time to shop my stash. #LongDog #CrossStitch [contains quote post or other embedded content]28 Oct 2026 20:00 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myxk3ql5322chttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myxipdpn4c27There's that blue sky.28 Oct 2026 19:35 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myxipdpn4c27https://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myxara6olk2cMiss 13 has been on zoloft about a week. Some minor side effects. Don't know if it's placebo or the med, but she hasn't had a single explosive outburst the entire week. Not anger, fear, or frustration. I need you to understand that the last time she was this evenkeeled was when she was about 1828 Oct 2026 17:13 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myxara6olk2chttps://blacksky.community/profile/pavlovcat.myatproto.social/post/3myw35ndofc2qCouldn't log in to bluesky for many hours and had to run to tiktok to see if it happened and ya'll crashed the servers.28 Oct 2026 06:00 +0000at://did:plc:vczss6wia6wgrgslwr4p42cd/app.bsky.feed.post/3myw35ndofc2q